Community Standards

How we show up for one another.

These commitments keep The Fold a place where connection, mentorship and growth come first.

Why The Fold exists

  • The Fold exists for intentional connection, mentorship, leadership development and professional growth.
  • Every introduction is made with care. We ask members to receive and extend them the same way.

What we expect

  • Show up as you said you would, and follow through on introductions and commitments.
  • Offer value before asking for it. Generosity matters more than seniority.
  • Respect confidentiality. What is shared in a Circle, a conversation or a mentorship stays there.
  • Communicate kindly and professionally, including when you need to decline.

What is not permitted

  • Unsolicited sales pitches, or treating introductions as a sales pipeline.
  • Mass solicitation — bulk messages, list-building or recruiting from the member community.
  • Misuse of member information, including copying, sharing or exporting names, emails or profile details outside The Fold.
  • Harassment, discrimination or intimidation of any kind.
  • Repeated disregard for professional boundaries after being asked to stop.

Mentorship

  • Offer mentorship only with the availability you can realistically give.
  • Respect each other's time: arrive prepared, keep agreed times, and say so early if plans change.
  • Mentees and mentors may end a mentorship at any point, respectfully and without explanation.

If something goes wrong

  • Tell us through the Contact page. Reports are read by the founder and handled discreetly.
  • Depending on the situation, The Fold may issue a reminder, pause access, or end a membership.

Member acknowledgment

"I will use The Fold for intentional connection and growth. I will not pitch, solicit or misuse member information. I will respect other members' time and boundaries, and offer mentorship only with the availability I can realistically give."

Every applicant agrees to these standards as part of their application.

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